Chapter 1:  I THINK HE HAS IT  (FOR READERS WITH UNDIAGNOSED PARTNERS)
           Approaching the Subject   
           Online Checklists and Questionnaires
           How to Get Help
           What to Expect
           Resources for Learning

Chapter 2:   ISSUES AROUND THE DIAGNOSIS AND EXPECTATIONS FOR CHANGE
           Why Can’t They Just Admit It?
           Once He’s on Drugs, Will I Feel Better?

Chapter 3:   ADD SYMPTOMS AND YOUR MARRIAGE
           A True Story
           The Value of Identifying Your Partner’s Traits
           One Side of the Coin: My Partner’s Difficult ADD Behaviors        
           The Other Side of the Coin: Why I Love ______

Chapter 4:  UNDERSTANDING OURSELVES IN THE RELATIONSHIP
           Recognizing Our Feelings
           Worksheet 4A
           Separating Thoughts from Feelings
           Worksheet 4B                 
           Will the Real You Please Stand Up?
           Worksheet 4C
           The Receiving End of Their Anger
           Worksheet 4D
           Our Personal Boundaries
           Worksheet 4E
           Are You Doing It All?

Chapter 5: WORKING IT OUT
          How to Talk with Your Partner
          Ground Rules Contract
          Making It Fair        
          Who Did What
          Shared Chore List
          Rewards for a Job Well Done
          Consequences of a Job Undone
          Feeding Your Heart
          Tips to Help You Set Limits or Just Say No
          How to Dodge the Darts  
          Rehearsing Emotional Self-Defense

Chapter 6: SURVIVAL SKILLS
          Forgiving on a Daily Basis
          Loving Detachment
          I Can’t Stand It Anymore
          Do Something Now!

Chapter 7: THRIVING
          The Importance of Your Own Space
          WARNING: DO NOT ENTER!
          Developing Stress Muscles
          Our Bodies Tensed and Relaxed
          A Personal Definition of Relaxation
          Meditation and Guided Imagery
          My Special Place
          Affirmations for Non-ADD Spouses
          A Date with Yourself
          Brief Actions to Find Slivers of Peace